Na wa for some men, monitoring their wives upandown.
If the trust is no longer there, discuss with her, and go your separate ways.
You knowingly married an educated wife, a career woman. She’s had male colleagues all her life, school and work mates.
Because she finally married you, you ask her to drop all her male friends, No calls, No messages or attend events, house warming, child dedication, birthdays, even funerals etc.
But you as oga of the house, have licence to attend occasions, even un-invited, and return home whenever you like, expecting “A pope’s reception, with your food readily served on the table”.
Reminds me of a story…Mr. Husband is always travelling out of town on business trips, and calls on wife’s bestie to come stay in the house to keep her friend company. So generous he was, that for every business trip, he dashes wife’s bestie N200k. (Bobo na nice guy).
On a particular trip, Mr. Husband returned unannounced and caught wife and bestie enjoying a “69”.
Before I forget, Bestie was wife’s chief bridesmaid, 15 years ago.